Unfortunately our male friends are a little difficult to deal with… just when you think you know everything about them, something else comes into the mix. Usually with the same excuse as to why you didn't know, you hear, "Oh… you didn't ask!"
So in an attempt to avoid the "gray area", here are a list of questions, w/elaborations, for you to try to filter out the BS! We'll call them the Top Ten… Clearly it's more than ten, but the follow up questions just piggy back off of the original to avoid confusion as much as possible! …lol!
Top Questions for dating… First Date and Speed Date Appropriate!
1) Are you in a relationship?
a) Are you married?
b) Have you ever been married?
c) Have you ever been engaged?
d) Are you seeing anyone?
e) Are you dating?
f) Are you single?
g) How long ago did your last relation ship end?
h) How long was it?
i) Does she know it's over?
...If you receive appropriate answers, continue to question two.
2) Are you sexually active? (If no, you're lying!)
a) w/how many people?
b) Any men?
c) Have you ever had any sort of relations w/a man? …sexual or other?
d) Have you ever thought about it?
...If you receive appropriate answers, continue to question three.
3) Do you have any children?
a) How many? How old?
b) Is there a possibility that you may have children that you do not know about?
c) Are you supporting anyone else's children financially? …or otherwise?
d) Do you pay child support?
e) Baby mama drama? Why or Why not?
f) What is your relationship w/your child's mom?
...If you receive appropriate answers, continue to question four.
4) Do you have any roommates?
a) Male or female?
b) How long?
c) Have you ever been involved in a relationship w/your roommate, sexually or otherwise?
d) Would you ever be involved in a relationship w/your roommate, sexually or otherwise?
...If you receive appropriate answers, continue to question five.
5) What is your relationship with your parents?
a) Siblings? Relationship w/them?
b) What are your family values?
...If you receive appropriate answers, continue to question six.
6) Do you want to get married?
a) How important is it to you?
b) Do you have a problem w/commitment?
c) Do you have a problem w/monogamy?
...If you receive appropriate answers, continue to question seven.
7) Are you currently employed?
a) Where? …How long?
b) What do you do?
c) Is this your dream job?
d) Are you comfortable w/your current salary?
...If you receive appropriate answers, continue to question eight.
8) What level of education have you completed?
a) Do you plan to obtain any further degrees?
...If you receive appropriate answers, continue to question nine.
9) What are your goals and aspirations?
a) What's your plan?
...If you receive appropriate answers, continue to question ten.
10) If we were to begin a relationship, would you be comfortable getting tested for HIV/AIDS and STD's before we have sex?
a) Every six months?
Hopefully at this point you've got more than enough information to work with! …lol! Good Luck!
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